This cat parent is facing a purrplexing dilemma: a 16-year-old Bengal with a meowssive case of separation anxiety. Ever since the boyfriend moved in, the bedroom door stays closed at night, and the feline drama has reached catastrophic levels. Starting around 2 a.m., their high-strung, vocal kitty unleashes a symphony of yowls. So intense her voice goes hoarse. The humans, meanwhile, are feline frazzled, fueled by earplugs, white noise, and a growing pile of neighbor complaints.
Despite trying clawver solutions like bedtime play, cozy sleep spots, meds, and even a feline frenemy foster experiment, nothing has quieted the nightly opera. This poor cat mom, a recent college grad living in a clawstrophobic NYC apartment, is torn between love for her senior cat and her own unraveling sanity. She's tried to make it work, pawsitively everything short of speaking cat, but she's running on empty.
Now, with a rehoming option that feels less than ideal, she's stuck between a rock and a hard purrlaced. It's a heart-wrenching scenario, and she's desperately seeking advice from anyone who's ever felt the purrils of feline night shifts.
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