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If a cat you adopted is not being affectionate with you, the first place that you should look at is the mirror, not the contact number for the shelter. 

When cats bond with their humans, they bond incredibly hard. We say that all the time, and we stand by that. Oftentimes, when a cat is not outwardly showing you affection, it is up to you to get them to open up. You need to give them time, you need to give them space, you need to show them that you are a safe space rather than someone pressuring them to do something that they don't want to do. Your cat will cuddle with you in their time, not yours. 

People who return their cats to shelters for being "unaffectionate" are people who, personally, we think should not adopt cats in the first place. It shows that they do not understand cats. It's much easier for a cat to bond with someone who actually tries rather than giving up on them. 

Cats don't have money, but they control yours. 

Cats don't have jobs, but they somehow have a full spending plan. You go out for one thing and come back with a bag of toys, treats, and something labeled "premium" because it sounded important. It's not even a question. If it's for the cat, it's getting bought. Your wallet doesn't stand a chance.

They also have very strong purrchasing opinions. You'll splurge on the nicest toy, only for it to get ignored immediately. Meanwhile, a crumpled receipt becomes the highlight of their day. Same with food. One week it's their favorite, the next week they won't even look at it. No explanation, just a quiet refusal. It's all part of their purrsonal taste.

Then there's the ongoing costs. Scratching posts, beds, replacements for things they've destroyed, and an endless supply of treats. You upgrade once, then again, then suddenly you're deep in it. They're living their best life while you're mentally adding up receipts. It's less budgeting, more catculated spending.

And still, you keep going. You see something and immediately think, they'd like this. Another toy, another treat, another "just in case" purrchase. They don't ask, they don't need to. The spending just happens. At this point, it's not your money, it's a fully funded feline lifestyle.

A situation no cat sitter ever wants to face is one where they're forced to make a decision about the cat's health while the owner is away. Especially not if they're going to be treated like they did the wrong thing.

Everybody thinks being a cat sitter is an easy job, but that is far from the truth. You are charged with taking care of someone's most precious family member, with no way of communicating with them directly (unless some of you out there speak cat, and in which case, teach us your ways). Is it a lot of physical labor? No, but the job itself holds a lot of responsibility. And if you are faced with the purrfectly difficult decision of making a medical choice while the owner is away, the responsibility of your actions will weigh on you heavily.

While cat sitting for a friend, the cat sitter noticed that the kitty wouldn't stop scratching their ears. After contacting the owner, who wrote it off, the cat sitter decided to take matters into her own hands and bring the cat to the vet. She paid the $190 bill for the exam and medicine, and learned that there might have been purrmanent damage if she hadn't gotten help when she did. Happy with her report, what she didn't expect was the cold shoulder from the friend and pawrent upon her return.